It's no shocker we eat a lot of sugar in this country. According to the American Heart Association, the average four to eight-year-old eats 21 teaspoons of sugar a day, but they should only eat three to four teaspoons. The average adult eats about the same amount, 22 tsp., which is also about 5 times the limit amount of added sugar recommended for adult men and women. I doubt any of us adults actually thinks that the sugar we consume is good for us, and yet we do little to manage our intake- particularly during times of stress. In Julia Ross's book, The Diet Cure, she writes, "many clients have told me that they got hooked the very first time they got a high from ice cream, sodas, or cookies. Personally, I think of refined sugar as a drug. When white sugar was first introduced to Europe int he 16th century, it was kept under lock and key, because of its potency. It was worth its weight in silver and they even called it "Crack"! Just because sugar is legal, cheap, and easily available doesn't mean that it isn't destructive."
The author goes on to say that "if you eat sweets a lot...you will exhaust your adrenals eventually. This is true if you diet a lot too, because your blood glucose is always low when you diet. Dieting is a big strain on the adrenals. There is no greater strain that impending death, which is what the adrenals perceive starvation dieting to be. But Any extreme or prolonged stress will overtax them. "
So how do we combat our desire to eat sweets, especially when we can't complete avoid stress and we are constantly bombarded with opportunities to eat sugar?
1) Manage your stress as best as you can with communication and scheduling: When we talk about our problems that can't eat us up inside- so we won't use food to stuff our emotions down. When we schedule our lives, we have less stress in the first place and can anticipate our needs.
2) Stop dieting: Eating a lower calorie diet may seem like a good idea in the first place, but we can only survive on fewer calories if we are getting a TON of nutritional density out of the calories we eat. Most of us need to eat at least 1200-2000 calories a day minimum to meet our daily needs. Anything less puts our body into a starvation setting and increases our desire for quick sugary carbs.
3) Eat a protein or a fiber with your carbs: Eating a protein or a high fiber food (like veggies or whole grain brown rice) slows down the rate of the sugar absorption so we don't have such a big surge in insulin release to handle the processing of the high sugar intake. When we absorb the energy we eat more slowly we are less likely to have large swings in our blood sugar- we stay more stable, and therefore have less cravings. Ideally you should be getting 30-35 grams of fiber a day. Use a supplement if you needed...we love UltraFiber Plus.
4) Add these 2 amino acids to your day: Adding two 500 mg capsules or L-Glutamine three times a day between meals improves your brain chemistry by balancing out the energy the brain needs. Taking 50-100mg or less of 5HTP 2-3 times a day increases our natural serotonin levels so we feel more emotional stability and self-confidence.
5) Get your sleep: Carbohydrates and sugar are purely an energy source, like the gas you put in your car. When you are low on energy, you crave more quick fuel...like sugar and carbs. Boost your energy by getting your Zzzz's.
6) Remove the tempting food from your environment: If it isn't there to eat, you won't be able to eat it. Pack your kitchen full of veggies, fruits, and lean meats instead. When a craving comes along, do your best to eat a little protein and wait about 10 minutes. The amino acids in the protein should help the craving subside. This trick works especially well for those of you who feel you cannot remove all tempting foods because of kids in the house.
You may not have to give up all your sugar...just do your best to cut back at every opportunity you can!



My mom was here today watching my 5 month old twins (thank God for mom's) and she was on the fence about going to workout.  She had a couple legitimate excuses, 1) she had an allergy flare up and her nose was dripping, 2) it's nearly impossible to leave my two little angels...because they are so darn cute.  In the end, she ended up going to workout with the words "well I guess we will just see how it goes".  Not exactly the words of enthusiasm her workout crazed child would prefer, but the fact of the matter is that she DID go workout.  She didn't let her excuses get in the way of her intention.
If you find yourself needing a little nudge to get your workout going and would be thrilled to love doing it- here's my 5 step how to guide:
This past week I have pondered the question of whether it is possible to think yourself out an emotional response. This is important to me as I examine my reaction to so many different things in my life, but specifically to how I react to stress. I tent to get anxious, overwhelmed, fearful and then completely disabled when stress mounts. After a chat with my pastor, he suggested I take a look at Cognitive Behavioral Therapy as a means to change my self-talk and create a different response to my habitual negative one. I have been introduced to this type of therapy through the WellCoaches training I am taking right now, but when I thought about it on a more personal level, it occurred to me that this therapy could be used to help people overcome negative habits of any kind.
Relationship expert, Dr Alice Boyes, Psychologist suggests we list our negative thoughts or reactions and when they come up again we replace the thought for ourselves with a third person. It would look something like this..
Rather that hearing "You are a failure", you would replace the statement with an observation..."Oh there goes Susie again, she things I am a failure, but I know I am (replace with whatever positive truth you would like)." In this way we take out the emotion and allow ourselves to replace it with a thought is more rational and purposeful.
Estimates vary, but approximately 60% to 80% of us will get at least mild back pain at some time in our lives.  The pain can range from a little achiness to severe pain from a fracture of the vertebra or a herniation of the disc between your vertebra that can cause radiating nerve pain known as sciatica.  In any case, prevention is the best medicine, but if you are in need, here's our guide to reducing your back pain:
1) Stretch.  This one seems obvious, but it is ridiculous how many people neglect simply stretching to be sure they aren't putting undue stress on their back. Here's some favorites:
Olympic hopefuls don't get to the games on accident.  Ride their wave of success with these four lessons:
1) “Discipline is remembering what you want” – David Campbell
When I say "strategic" things like accounting, business development, or college planning come to mind.  What doesn't come to mind is when I will work out, what I will do, and for how long will I commit to the workout.  Still, most of us plan our vacations better than we plan the day to day things that could have more meaning and add more fun to our daily existence.  Too often we drudge our way from one to do item to the next without stepping back and really thinking  about what will make our lives more exciting and meaningful.  We regress into a state of just getting by and letting life happen.  Unfortunately, entropy will only ensure that if we allow ourselves to constantly go with the flow, our health may just flow right out the window.
Never in my life have I had to engage in so much planning to get anything done.  That includes my workouts, or even just a quick stroll with my 4 month old twins.  Last Friday I had the liberty of rejoining the morning
As many of you know, I have been an avid runner since the age of 13. In fact, I can’t remember ever feeling particularly out of shape since I first started running. So it’s not surprising that I recently told someone that I haven't been this out of shape since I was 12. After laying low to try to get pregnant, and then the restricted activity while pregnant, and then the recovery time, I have gradually turned to mush. This is a tough reality to swallow for a girl whose life work is all about healthy fitness. The bright side is that I have two beautiful and amazing little boy munchkins that are a great trade off, I get to empathize with my clients a little more, and I get to redefine what fitness means for me.
Fitness and being “in shape” comes in all shapes and sizes. I have always known there were different varieties and levels of being fit because even within my own beloved sport, I was a distance girl, and didn’t train to sprint. I also played basketball, but put a softball in my hands and I was all thumbs. Which is to say, what does being in shape mean to us? Is it all about aesthetics, the ability to participate in particular sports, the way our fitness levels our stress, or how we improve our life expectancy?
It's no secret that laughter is great medicine, but when was the last time you allowed laughter into your workouts?
It's easy to laugh at comedians, or jokes, or the silly things in movies or TV, but one of the best things we can do is be able to laugh with ourselves. When we judge, condemn, belittle, or berate ourselves, especially when it comes to what we look like, or how "well" we are working out, we take the fun out of it all. It would be weird if we all looked the same, and yet we somehow have an expectation that there is a certain "look" we all have to have to fit in and be healthy. I just had 2 babies. My body is forever changed. It would be easy to sit around and beat myself up because I am not back in my pre-maternity clothes. But if I did that, I would miss the beauty of what my body has accomplished and the miracle that it is doing to provide nourishment to grow our boys. So I laugh about how sexy my momma body is, and actually do my best to believe it. I don't laugh at myself, I laugh with myself, and for myself.